Junior girl dating freshman boy college
Talk to her like you would one of your friends in this situation.My parents told me that I couldnt date a guy that was older than me and I continued to see him behind their backs.Really you just need to talk to her, but be positive when you do while also letting her know you are uncomfortable with this situation.If you forbid her to see him, she may go behind your back and do it anyway.My mom saw that he cares for me and wouldn't do anything to hurt me. You'll be able to tell how he feels for her As a freshman in Highschool, I did the same thing.
Your daughter is going to have to make decisions on her own; ones you don't agree with.
I'm not so comfortable with the age difference between the two of them. Set aside some time one day to discuss it with her, but keep in mind: she's not in trouble; you are just concerned about what may happen.
I want to be able to chat about this with her, without her totally dismissing what I have to say. Maybe go out on a lunch date or picnic, something nice that says, "I love you, so let's talk and spend some time together." She may not understand at her age that even a couple years can be drastic for teens in terms of mental development, maturity, experience, and what they want to spend their time doing.
They're young and gaining experience in the world, learning about how people and relationships work.
Just do what you, be her mother; be there for her, teach her what you know, and be her support.